I just read recently this Wall Street Journal article from about a month ago: Most-Praised Generation Craves Kudos at the Office:
Employers are dishing out kudos to workers for little more than showing up. Corporations including Lands’ End and Bank of America are hiring consultants to teach managers how to compliment employees using email, prize packages and public displays of appreciation. The 1,000-employee Scooter Store Inc., a power-wheelchair and scooter firm in New Braunfels, Texas, has a staff “celebrations assistant” whose job it is to throw confetti — 25 pounds a week — at employees. She also passes out 100 to 500 celebratory helium balloons a week. The Container Store Inc. estimates that one of its 4,000 employees receives praise every 20 seconds, through such efforts as its “Celebration Voice Mailboxes.”
Certainly, there are benefits to building confidence and showing attention. But some researchers suggest that inappropriate kudos are turning too many adults into narcissistic praise-junkies. The upshot: A lot of today’s young adults feel insecure if they’re not regularly complimented.
Well, making fun of the self-esteem culture is always good sport, but, as someone who thrives on praise as much as anyone, I have to take exception here. The big unexplored factor in this article is how much the nature of work has changed in the last 40 years, due to the revolution in information technology. Work used to involve much more rote activity than it does now; activity where it was very easy to tell if you were doing a good job or not. In the 70’s and beforehand, it took a good amount of effort just to produce office documents, handle inter-office communication, and coordinate schedules, so much so that almost every executive needed a secretary to help with these task; now all these things can be done with some office software. And as I found out from the fascinating book “What Goes Up”, Wall Street companies in the 60’s and 70’s had to shut down on Wednesdays just to deal with the huge amount of paperwork needed to record all their trading activity. We don’t even consider such types of data entry real work anymore, because they’re so easy to do, but until fairly recently they were very real, and it was easy for anyone to tell whether you were doing a good job or not - was data being entered, and numbers being tabulated, correctly? It almost didn’t matter what line of work you were in, because if you worked at a corporate job, your day had a large amount of standard administrative work in it. The positive side of that was that, if you liked the satisfaction of a job well done, it was easy to get it, because plenty of the work was of the kind where you could easily tell if it had been well done or not.
Compare that to corporate work today, where much of the “busy work” has been removed, leaving the work that’s more creative, and more focused on inter-personal communication. If that’s the nature of your work, how exactly do you know whether you’ve been doing a good job at any of it? It’s hard to judge based on the success of your work in the real world, because such a thing is very unquantifiable (if a book sells well, and 20 people were involved in producing it in one way or another, who’s responsible for its success?) You can’t compare your work to that of others, because there’s no one around who’s doing work that’s of a comparable nature (that’s certainly been true of most of the programming jobs I’ve had). And there usually aren’t benchmarks to compare against: a good typist can write at 90 words per minute, but how many proposals should an advertising executive produce in a month?
The consequence of all that subjectivity is that the perception one’s boss has become more important than ever. If you’re performing relatively well in a quantifiable way, then, whatever your boss has to say, you can always point back to those numbers to defend yourself. And if it’s not enough to convince the boss, it’s at least enough to justify yourself in your own eyes. But if everything’s a matter of perception, what recourse do you have if your boss doesn’t appreciate your work? Or you suspect that the boss doesn’t appreciate your work? None. Essentially your one source for feedback has gone negative. I’ve been in that situation before, and it can be quite unpleasant.
So I see nothing wrong with the streams of praise, and actually I think more workplaces could benefit from more positive feedback; let’s not forget the context in which it happens.
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